Offspring

I wrote her off for the tenth time today

And practiced all the things I would say

But she came over, I lost my nerve

I took her back and made her dessert

Now I know I'm being used

That's okay, man, 'cause I like the abuse

I know she's playing with me

That's okay 'cause I got no self esteem

Well, I guess I should stick up for myself

But I really think it's better this way

The more you suffer

The more it shows you really care 

Right? 

(From their 1994 song, "Self Esteem.")